In February I met my man on this site, his name is Doyan. I remember my feelings back then very well. I dreamed about him day and night, I was so in love but, at the same time, I was very frightened because we lived in different countries and perhaps we would never meet in real life. We corresponded and had video chats, which made me feel secure and I gained confidence and calmness.
Doyan invited me to visit him in his country but I doubted if I would be able to or even if I was ready to do that but he behaved like a true kind gentleman. He found out when I was holiday from university and sent me plane tickets for the trip. He said that I could decide what I wanted to do for myself and he wouldn’t pressure me into making a decision – I could do whatever I wanted. Of course I wanted to fly to be with him and I was amazed by this wonderfully romantic act! I decided to place my trust in fate and without any doubts at all flew to my future.
So, in May, I arrived in China and went to Doyan’s home town – Dalian. Doyan had planned a fantastic tourist route for me. He showed me all the sights of his town, we ate traditional dishes at the cafes and we spent a great time together. When I tried Chinese food, Doyan watched me, waiting for my reaction. That was very funny! A little later I surprised him too and cooked the national dishes of my own country for him – then it was my turn to watch and wait for his reaction! To my relief, he liked my cooking.
Doyan had arranged a hotel room for me so I stayed there but he also took care of all the expenses and organizational matters himself. I was so grateful to him, that’s how a real strong man behaves. I had nothing to worry about and I could focus on getting to know him. We didn’t want to part, so we decided that I would stay in China all summer. I spent 4 months there which had a great influence on our relationships. We saw how we each behaved in everyday life, what we were like when we had to work, to meet other people, even when we were ill or in a bad mood. I think it helps to get to know your beloved better and this proves if your feelings are real or if it’s just a love affair that won’t last very long. In our case – it’s love! I want to care for him, to be with him, to share my feelings and emotions with him.
We found out that we had the same interests – we both want to travel around the world, to explore new places and countries and that’s what we are doing now together. We haven’t decided yet which country we want to live in, but we have all the time in the world to do that. I love this man and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. At first I worried that we would have problems in understanding each other due to the fact that we grew up at different countries and we have a different mentality and cultural background but now I see that when people want to be together they can solve any problem and accept each other for who they are. I’m so happy that I’m in love with this wonderful man. I hope that everyone will meet their soulmate and experience this unbelievable feeling!